So it should come as no surprise to any of us, yesterday was Valentineās Day. I say itās no surprise because not only are all the grocery stores decked out in pink and red right now, but few holidays are more polarizing than Valentineās Day, right? All of us have an opinion about Valentineās Day, and few of us are apathetic. Do you love it, or do you hate it?
Itās so strange – we live in a day and age where everybody has strong feelings about everything. And for people who love Valentineās Day, they totally look forward to it. And then thereās always the people who dislike Valentineās Day and think itās the worst day of the year.
Now everybody thinks theyāre right, and no matter which camp you fall in, hereās the thing, first and foremost: the Bible says we should rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. And that should change how we look at everything, including holidays like Valentineās Day.
So how does that principle apply to us this week? First of all, if you like Valentineās Day, and someone else doesnāt, letās be the kind of people who can say, āDonāt worry about it.ā If you donāt like Valentineās Day, donāt be a buzzkill for somebody who does. Let them enjoy the day! Whatās the big deal?
Valentineās Day is polarizing because itās a reminder for all of us. It makes us remember things, and itās either something we really dislike or something we really love…For most of us, itās either a reminder that we feel lonely and want to have someone who loves us romantically (which is why some of us hate this holiday). And for others of us, itās a reminder of our significant other, someone we really love…and we love celebrating that.
Now, hereās the thing. Thereās something bigger I think we all need to remember. God wants us to learn to be content in the finished work of Jesus and our relationship with God. Now, longing and contentment arenāt mutually exclusive…if you find yourself longing for a relationship, thatās not bad! Thatās something you can bring before the Lord in prayer. But longing shouldnāt be the lens we look at the rest of life through.Ā What I am always learning is, no matter how I feel in my natural way of reacting to things, my relationship with God should set the pace for the rest of my life.
What I am always learning is, no matter how I feel in my natural way of reacting to things, my relationship with God should set the pace for the rest of my life. Click To TweetSo if you love Valentineās Day, guess what? The greatest Valentine was Jesus dying on the cross for our sins. Thatās the greatest love youāll ever experience. No human love, no matter how amazing it is, will ever trump Godās love for you in Christ.
And if you totally feel like, āMan, I donāt like Valentineās Day, I donāt know loveā — actually, the love of Jesus is greater than any human love you could know anyway. So we want to allow the finished work of Jesus and our faith in Jesus to really help us to be content so that we donāt have these excessive highs or excessive lows. But we can live hemmed in by the finished work of Jesus, and thatās a powerful mark of maturity in the life of someone who does follow Jesus.
Contentment doesnāt mean our circumstances are necessarily what we would want them to be, but we can live in contentment when we live in the reality God is more than enough for us in Christ. So as we head into the coming week, let your faith in Jesus make you a more contented person.